What to Wear to Every Wedding: A Stylish Guide to Guest Dress Codes
Wedding season is officially upon us, and with it comes the age-old question: What am I supposed to wear? Whether you’re headed to a black tie event, a breezy beach ceremony, or something in between, decoding the dress code is key to being the best-dressed guest (without outshining the couple, of course). Here’s your guide to all of the most common wedding dress codes—plus what’s actually appropriate and what to wear if you want to nail the vibe. Remember to check the wedding invitation for any specific parameters beyond the dress code, like color preferences, dress-length, or specific styles.
White Tie
The most formal dress code you’ll encounter—think royal wedding-level glam.
What to Wear:
A full-length gown in rich fabrics like satin, silk, or velvet
Classic evening accessories like opera gloves, crystal jewelry, or a statement clutch
Hair in a sleek bun or Old Hollywood waves
Simple pointed-toe nude or black heels
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Black Tie
Elegant, glamorous, and often for evening weddings. There’s room for personal style here, but formality is key.
What to Wear:
A floor-length gown
Elevated fabrics like chiffon, satin, or sequins
Simple or strappy heels
Bold jewelry and a clutch
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Formal/Black Tie Optional
Still sophisticated, but with a little more flexibility.
What to Wear:
A floor-length dress, a midi-length gown, or a luxe cocktail dress
Dressy fabrics and tailored fits
Minimalist jewelry or a standout piece
Refined heels or heeled sandals
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Cocktail Attire
Chic and festive—this is your chance to have a little fun with fashion while still looking polished.
What to Wear:
A cocktail dress (mini, knee-length, or midi)
A jumpsuit with clean lines
Statement heels or embellished flats
Fun accessories, like a beaded clutch or sculptural earrings
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Semi-Formal/Dressy Casual
A touch more relaxed than cocktail, but still pulled-together and photo-ready.
What to Wear:
A flowy midi or knee-length dress
Dressy separates like a blouse and a tailored skirt or pants
Low heels, block heels, or elevated flats
Light, delicate jewelry
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Beach Formal
You’re on the sand, but this isn’t a casual hangout—think light, elegant, and weather-appropriate.
What to Wear:
A maxi or midi dress in lightweight, breathable fabric
Flat dressy sandals or espadrilles
Sun-friendly accessories like a raffia bag
Natural textures and light colors
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CASUAL
Most common for backyard, daytime, or city hall weddings—still nice, but not overly dressy.
What to Wear:
A sundress, maxi dress, or elevated matching set
Flat sandals, ballet flats, or low block heels
Casual accessories like a crossbody bag or delicate jewelry
No denim, no flip flops, no graphic tees
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